Okay…. I was doing dishes one morning and one of the things that came to my mind was – Think like a man, act like a lady. As much as that 👈 sounds funny, it is worrying as well. It gives me so much concern as to how we as women have left the genuineness of our ”being”, please not that. We have lost it or would I say we have exchanged it to the world’s believe of being one – a lady, a woman. It saddens my heart that in the course of we the female folks trying so hard to be a man, we have lost our sweetness, our comely heart, our warm embrace, our smile that gives peace, our bubbling that sparks up joy in lives, and our totality that is awesome which others see as being complex..Lol. We are so much gifted, grafted by God’s own hands. Our lives weren’t just made by the spur of the moment. It was a decision that took place after so much thought and preparation by God. We are unique and really I’m not trying to be a feminist as some might interpret this as. I’m trying as God is leading my hand to type as it is being inspired to, to ensure we leave the licensed act of – being a man and acting like a lady. Really!, be a man and act (cos now acting to me, is you trying to image something or a character) and why would you act as a lady when God made you so in the first place.
 Really, God never & didn’t make any mistake making you a female. You are blessed in fact for you to be one. Really, nations would call you blessed if only you stop being a man and walk into you being a lady.

 I believe this misconception came forth from people seeing the – Oh?, females are so fragile (yes, we are delicate cos even the Bible talks of it) but the delicate is in comparison with an egg; let me say for example, eggs are delicate and so needed to be handled with care but looking past that, an egg can make so many meals, take up so many forms – omelette, boiled egg, egg custard, used in baking all sorts, used in making sandwiches, burgers etc. I can’t mention all but egg serves a lot of functions beyond the rice and cassava and the whole unbreakable energy giving foods. Lol. It’s the truth, yes you are delicate, yet still you are amazingly important so much that the whole world awaits you, they are cared for by you, you are so unique that when you speak with wisdom, many are awed (yeah maybe they expected less from you, but really who cares, you blew their mind and passed greatly beyond their expectations of you). We are graced women, not liabilities, we are made whole as well in God. 

  Yes you are!, or don’t you believe you are whole?. Trust me, when God made you, He didn’t leave you as just piles of ribs that He took out of man’s side, instead He made you to be an amazing woman that the man saw and delighted so much in Her not just cos of her beauty, but cos she was God’s mastery as well as He was when he was made, a woman worth saying – Wow! trust me I believe it’s is why He came up with the -woman (the wow of a man).

Read this 👇☺

And the man said, “Finally! One like me, with bones from my bones and a body from my body. She was taken out of a man, so I will call her ‘woman.’”

Gen. 2:23 ERV

  This isn’t putting you above a man so to speak, instead it’s to call us back to our duty posts as God has made us be. Yes an Help meet, but not just any help meet, an graced help meet, a virtuous help meet (Proverbs 31:10-31), she is not just any kind of woman, she is one her seeds, generations, nations & all call her blessed and even her husband does so much more. Cos she is simply wowing, yes she is. She might seem unpredictable when it comes to some situations but I believe she has been graced, wired to handle it all as God expects her to.

  So if you are reading this right now and you are living so much below the standards of God for you, please redress and emerge, we all need occupy our God given positions in Himself, just as He would lead us more by His Spirit in us. Stop leaving that seat vacant, stop trying to occupy a man’s seat and leave that unique, well defined, decorated, amazing seat God has placed you on even before your conception.

  It’s a charge to me as well. Be delicate; yet strong, amazing, wowing and simply Godly as He desires for you. I believe God would help us all stand in our positions henceforth not leaving it vacant for the enemy to throw up disorder in our homes, families, ministries, work place etc that we ought function in. God bless you all. 

#We no longer live according to the malfunctioning of the world’s degrading system of being a woman. 

#We are standards raised up in God not to be the rebel of men God has placed as our heads in our homes but to live on in the ancient landmark of being a virtuous woman indeed. 

  Yay!. I have to pen down now. But its being an amazing eye opener for me as well. Come on now, let’s amaze our world as Godly – Graced women.. 👭💃… Oya now 🙋🚶🚶 😘👱.

** This is for you and I (us all) . Let’s digest it in together 🙇 📝♥ 

Have a blessed weekend.

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